Month: April 2021

Memento Mori

When I was growing up, I did the same thing every time I went to my paternal grandparents’ house. First, I’d remove my shoes in “the kids’ room” that my sisters, cousins, and I all grew up sleeping in whenever we were visiting. Next, I’d go to my grandmother and grandfather’s bedroom to say hello. If they weren’t there, I’d check the dining room, kitchen, and family room (in that order.) We’d hug, and they’d make a big deal about the fact that one of their grandchildren had finally arrived. Sometimes they’d ask me to get the mail or grab…
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Prelude in E Minor, Mahogany, & Charcoal

I hear in colors. My earliest accounts of listening to music all involve some sort of palette. If your first reaction is, "Wow, that's odd and probably would've been worth investigating", then your instinct is right. But when you grow up hearing rainbows pour out of every guitar and speaker, you too might normalize the unusual. It wasn't until after my 18th birthday that I first learned that audio stimuli didn’t create visual manifestations for everyone each time they turned pressed play on their iPods. I was scrolling through a popular Tumblr post when I noticed that people in the…
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Sisyphus Undone

You tell people it was a drunk driving accident. This is a crucial juncture for the lion-hearted. Those who were brave enough to even broach this line of questioning must now decide whether or not they have enough chutzpah to hold your gaze. But, thus far, everyone has flinched, no matter how minutely. So you’ve learned that this admission is guaranteed to be met with bouquets of “I’m so sorry to hear that” and “I can’t even imagine”. There’s no easy way to announce how someone’s left this mortal plane, but elements of tragedy make the conversations unbearable. They parrot…
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Film Review – Parasite ★ ★ ★ ★

If you haven’t watched it already, it seems that the lion’s share of moviegoers and critics would advise you to resist viewing the trailer for Parasite, and go in blind. I’m here to tell you - it doesn’t actually matter. Beguiling, deeply unsettling, and, almost unnervingly relevant to our current times, the themes and cinematic stylings elevate the production into something that has sparked a bit of life into the world of motion pictures. A NEON distribution, director and screenwriter Bong Joon Ho’s latest offering isn’t the film you expect. Until it is. And then it really isn’t. The first…
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